You—yes, you—can bend reality (a bit)

You can bend reality to a much greater extent than most people realize.

I’m Bruce Kasanoff, and at any given time, I have a lot of projects underway. But now they all are connected to this one incredible idea.

Reality isn’t fixed. It’s fluid. You can influence it, but not control it.

Everything I do is intended to help good, kind, curious and compassionate people bend reality.

The people you think “have all the luck” know that this is possible.

I have no desire to convince you of this truth… unless you are already open to it. I write (a lot) for people who are already willing and able to Do The Work of bending reality (just a bit).

By the way, the people who are closest to me—including new ones who show up almost every day—are already open to this idea.

If we haven’t already met, drop me a line and tell me about yourself. I’ll respond in kind.


“I love what Bruce does with Bend Reality. He really spends the time preparing good questions and facilitates the kind of discussion you can’t get anywhere else. He manages to attract the most interesting people, all who have incredibly thoughtful viewpoints. Bruce is the master at dislodging you from your inbox and providing rocket fuel for more expansive thinking.”

Dottie DeHart, Principal at DeHart and Company Public Relations

“Bend Reality serves as a grounding reminder of what should be most important to us all. It also serves as a catalyst that helps me tackle deeper issues, so that I can be the kind of person my loved ones need me to be.”

Richard Bezemer, Founding Member, Mountain Towns 2030

“You provide such an invaluable gift with Bend Reality – you encourage all of us to see this complex world with a deeper, broader perspective by providing a safe space for people to share, be heard and acknowledged as we explore questions from you that go deep into our inner beings. It is what the world needs! Thank you for giving us the opportunity to share the magic.”

Monica Nester, VP & General Manager at Marisan Group

“Bruce has created a welcoming and supportive atmosphere in which we all have space to explore soul-provoking questions. Each call I find myself empowered and challenged as I listen and learn from others, while also being encouraged to share my own unique journey. I leave each call inspired, knowing that there is a community of like-minded people who strive to live expansively and refuse to settle in life.”

Karen Schuyler, Strategic Programs at Intuitive

“I love the Bend Reality experience because I ‘need’ it more than I ‘want’ it. Our community nudges me to think and feel more expansively, when most people my age are flirting with retirement. My professional and personal lives are growing in the right ways, and I’m more fulfilled, because I’m not playing it safe.”

Dr. Paul L. Corona, Leadership Development Professor and Director, Northwestern University - Kellogg School of Management

I am deeply grateful to be a part of Bend Reality. Bruce facilitates a community of extraordinary humans who inspire my curiosity and challenge my thinking with every encounter. Bend Reality has expanded the capacity of my heart and strengthened my belief in what is possible.”

Paula Di Rita Wishart, Executive Coach